I liked this article and its comments, so I'm linking it.
(Please note that I'm not interested in anybody's efforts to explain to me how I am wrong and mean for linking this or agreeing with a lot of it, or how the commenters in there are wrong and mean and I am evil for linking this, etc. I'm really not. So don't AIM me to complain. ;) I'll make a point of being busy for the duration of the indignant soliloquy. if you wanna discuss something in there, spine up and register and do it there - and suck it up if you're disagreed with; I'm not your sounding board or messenger and no one is obliged to agree with you simply because you think you're right. If, however, you want to discuss something I [zub0n there] said with me, feel free to hit me up in AIM. Just don't be shocked if I vanish in response to condescension or rudeness. I'm still very much NOT in the mood to deal with people whose self-confidence depends on me being their yes-man enabler. I say unto them: itteyoshi.)
(Please note that I'm not interested in anybody's efforts to explain to me how I am wrong and mean for linking this or agreeing with a lot of it, or how the commenters in there are wrong and mean and I am evil for linking this, etc. I'm really not. So don't AIM me to complain. ;) I'll make a point of being busy for the duration of the indignant soliloquy. if you wanna discuss something in there, spine up and register and do it there - and suck it up if you're disagreed with; I'm not your sounding board or messenger and no one is obliged to agree with you simply because you think you're right. If, however, you want to discuss something I [zub0n there] said with me, feel free to hit me up in AIM. Just don't be shocked if I vanish in response to condescension or rudeness. I'm still very much NOT in the mood to deal with people whose self-confidence depends on me being their yes-man enabler. I say unto them: itteyoshi.)