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yukie1013Okay, fandom, this should go without saying, but if you're writing same-sex relationships--be they monogamous or poly--then you should really not EVER be seen dismissing the IRL concerns and issues LGBTQ&c. folks face.
You should never fucking get caught pissing and moaning and fapping to the tune of "oh bawwwwwwwww they're all taking things toooo seeeeheeheeeeeeriously abloobloobloooo, guyyyyyyyys loooooook they're harshing my squeeeee waaaaahhh omgtehgaysaremeeeeean bawwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww~"*
You should never be fucking seen crying about us 'shoving it down your throats' (my my my, how Freudian you are)when we hold hands or have big fabulous gatherings, because, OMG, no one wants to SEE that, we're only allowed to be gay if you don't have to think about it!**
Don't fucking do that shit if you write same-sex pairings.
Because that makes you look like a giant fucking choad.
It makes you look like a giant, wanky, immature, snotty, snitty, whiny, ignorant, objectifying, disgusting, putrid, entitled, loudmouthed, bratty fucking choad.
*yes, this is pretty fucking much what it sounds like.
**YES, that's really pretty much what you're fucking implying.
You should never fucking get caught pissing and moaning and fapping to the tune of "oh bawwwwwwwww they're all taking things toooo seeeeheeheeeeeeriously abloobloobloooo, guyyyyyyyys loooooook they're harshing my squeeeee waaaaahhh omgtehgaysaremeeeeean bawwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww~"*
You should never be fucking seen crying about us 'shoving it down your throats' (my my my, how Freudian you are)when we hold hands or have big fabulous gatherings, because, OMG, no one wants to SEE that, we're only allowed to be gay if you don't have to think about it!**
Don't fucking do that shit if you write same-sex pairings.
Because that makes you look like a giant fucking choad.
It makes you look like a giant, wanky, immature, snotty, snitty, whiny, ignorant, objectifying, disgusting, putrid, entitled, loudmouthed, bratty fucking choad.
*yes, this is pretty fucking much what it sounds like.
**YES, that's really pretty much what you're fucking implying.
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Date: 2011-11-22 12:19 am (UTC)Basically it was your standard cannot-take-the critique plus fail. friend's friend heard I was a good proofreader when it came to grammar/spelling/structure/mechanics, and to finding Accidental Fail that one didn't want in one's finished product. They were fine for my mechanics-n'-grammar talk, but they thought the paragraph about Unfortunate Implication (in this case, many scenes drowning in the most unpleasant slash and yaoi tropes) was a personal attack on them, and a critique of their character and not their fic. Then, house explode.
Also, much hetsplaining. And a declaration that I'd never be asked for crit ever again.
I was like: 'yay~'
On the upside, FOAF wasn't biphobic. At least there's that. And they're not talking to me anymore, which I consider a plus.